When we were preparing for this new season of life, we had to fill out a questionnaire to indicate what characteristics we would consider accepting in a foster child. Ages, sexes, behavioral issues, health histories, etc. Robyn and I were in full agreement that we would take boys or girls with a variety of potential issues, but we would not consider taking in any children older than Toby. He is first in the birth order, and he’s our big boy, and he must remain that way.
We didn’t feel the same way about Aimee. She was our baby, and we figured she’d be ok regardless of whether her foster siblings were older or younger than her. After 6 months as a big sister and the oldest daughter in our family, our stance has changed. She is thriving in her new role as the big girl. She’s a fantastic big sister, and we will no longer consider taking in a girl older than our Aimee.
She plays well with Toby, she plays well with C (who is 7 months younger), and she is great with the baby. I had no idea what to expect when we took in the girls… but I sure am thankful that Aimee has adapted to the changes so well. She has grown up so much!
Happy birthday baby girl. As I try to tell you every day, I’m so glad God let you be my girl and am so thankful that I get to be your Daddy.
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